Parting is often accompanied by accusations and outbursts of hatred towards the partner. At this point, it may seem that you have nothing in common with this person. But when you cool down, you understand that you want to live with your loved one all your life. It's not too late to return everything, the main thing is to take it seriously and not give up.
Instructions
Step 1
Calm down and let the man cool. Parting, regardless of whether it was accompanied by scandals or passed by mutual agreement, leaves an unpleasant aftertaste in the soul. If you are suffering a lot from separation, make a promise to yourself that you will stop feeling sorry for yourself tomorrow and start rebuilding your relationship. Reassure yourself that love is more important to you than self-pity.
Step 2
Do not torment your beloved with constant calls and SMS, especially if he went to another woman. You only needlessly humiliate yourself and anger the man. After a difficult breakup, neither you nor he is ready for a constructive dialogue. You'd better take care of yourself now. Think about why he left you. Love passes when a loved one becomes completely different from who he was at first. Therefore, start taking care of your appearance. Assess your strengths and weaknesses objectively. Change your look and completely renew your wardrobe. This is necessary not only in order to return a loved one, first of all it is necessary for you. Parting one way or another lowers self-esteem, you have to love yourself again and open up from a new side. The next time a man sees you, you should really surprise him.
Step 3
Do not count on reconciliation if your own transformation ends with a new haircut. Remember all the claims that the man had against you. Probably you have been going to parting for more than one day, so remember all your mistakes. You should never allow yourself to behave in a way that your man doesn't approve of.
Step 4
Change the rhythm of your life and make it more intense. Meet your girlfriends and find new hobbies for yourself. The renewed interest in life will help you to distract yourself and does not treat the fact of separation as tragic as it used to be. Such a complex transformation will make you in the eyes of your beloved man a desirable, but inaccessible size, which will undoubtedly heat up his interest in you.
Step 5
If a loved one left you for another woman, try to spoil their relationship at least a little. Ask a man for help, especially if you have children. The constant visits of a loved one to you are unlikely to please his new passion. Eventually she will start nagging him. Try to spread unpleasant rumors about this woman among your friends. However, be careful, the beloved should not understand that he owes this "joy" to you.
Step 6
Set up your meeting with your loved one. Just do not negotiate with a man about it. Your appearance should come as a complete surprise to him. Don't act like your world collapsed after breaking up, but don't try to show contempt or indifference. Communicate on a friendly note and tell him as little about yourself as possible. To increase the chances of meeting your loved one, make friends with his friends. Try to charm them. For men, the opinion of close comrades means a lot, so do not neglect their location, but do not cross the line of friendship and in no case flirt with anyone.
Step 7
Arrange a few "casual" dates and if you notice your loved one is interested in yourself, gradually go for rapprochement. Ask for help, give a gift for a holiday, start frank conversations. If you notice a clear desire in a man to return, but he will not dare to do so, take the first step.
Step 8
Don't lower your bar after your reconciliation. Stay exactly as he returned to you and constantly improve. Don't make the same mistake again. Try to diversify your life, get rid of routine. This will not let your love subside, which must be constantly maintained. And never reproach a man with reminders of your separation. It is better to talk about this once, immediately after reconciliation and find out the true reasons for such an act. Remember that by bringing the man back, you have already forgiven him.
