In the life of almost every girl there is a case when she suddenly realizes that she really likes a guy. She sees him quite regularly, perhaps even knows him by name, but only now she realized that she would very much like to get to know the young man better. What if you like a guy?
First, you need to first think about your feelings and decide what kind of relationship you would like to have with this particular young man. You can just feel physically attracted, you can add a guy to the list of losers, you can feel a kinship. Depending on the type of feeling and the goals set, you need to use different tactics in the future. Second, you need to collect information about the young man. The methods are varied - from carefully polling mutual acquaintances to searching through social networks and simply on search sites. This allows you to collect a dossier on the guy. You can write it all down on the pages of your personal diary. Having accumulated knowledge about the hobby, profession, preferences and character of a man, you can see that the image will emerge more and more clearly. Then it will be easier to find similarities with those with whom you have already dealt. This does not guarantee success in itself, but it will be easier to communicate. It is good to define the psychological or even socionic type. In the latter case, you can even find on the Internet the recommendations of a socionic specialist on how to please each of the 16 types of men. Thirdly, you need to start taking action. If you need a guy for a short-term relationship, you should be openly provocative. Short skirts, neckline (but not at the same time), shooting with eyes and smiles with a sidelong glance will do. Then, unnoticed by others, you need to leave him a business card with a phone. If he is interested, he will call. If you just need to subdue a guy, then use the "hot-cold" technique, that is, you need to behave either provocatively or strictly officially. The most difficult case is when you want a serious relationship. In order to seriously interest a guy, provocative behavior should be avoided altogether. It is best to create a calm, feminine image, that is, light, lyrical and gentle. No "power" intonations and reproaches to anyone's address, you need to feel like a quiet and kind lady. It is good to demonstrate embarrassment - during a conversation with a guy, from time to time lower your eyes, as if slightly shy in front of him, only this should be without giggling and nervousness. Practice in front of a mirror. Then you need to prepare the guy questions from the sphere of his profession or hobby and ask them to him, without trying to imagine yourself as an expert in this area, even if you have a dissertation on this topic. Naturally, you will not fully understand everything, and therefore ask for an email address. With an email address, you can do a lot - make an appointment, tell about yourself, or even confess your love. The main thing is that your relationship will develop.
