It's so easy to apologize if someone stepped on someone's foot on the bus, and it's so hard to say "I'm sorry!" to a loved one. In recent times, our culture has a misconception that it is humiliating to be wrong. And we rarely ask for forgiveness from loved ones, considering it a weakness. Although in life everything is exactly the opposite: only a strong person can admit mistakes and repent of them to a loved one. Therefore, you need to know how to get this forgiveness, which will lead to trust and love between loving people.
Instructions
Step 1
If your mistake is insignificant, you can fool around: fall on your knees, begging for forgiveness, play a whole interlude and reduce everything to a joke. But if the guilt is great, then jokes, of course, are inappropriate. Then you need to seriously think over every step and every word, so as not to make new mistakes, aggravating the old ones.
Step 2
Probably, you must first think over the "bribery" of a loved one in order to at least slightly soften the situation.
Step 3
An attempt to make amends will only look like an attempt if words of guilt and remorse are not spoken. This is the next most important step. Think over all the words, everything that needs to be said. It will be difficult, but it must be done if you want to maintain a relationship with a loved one. Experience has shown that forgiveness does not come immediately, sometimes it stretches for a lifetime if your offense was serious. But if you love each other, the relationship is sure to gradually recover. The main thing is that you both want it.
