A date with a man can be very exciting for a woman if there is sympathy and a desire to get to know the person better. Some things can make a companion angry, so it is very important to know about them when going to an important meeting.
To make the right impression on a man during a date and spark interest in him, you need to behave correctly and not forget about things that greatly annoy the opposite sex.
Lack of punctuality
It is generally accepted that a girl should be late for her first dates. This will make the man nervous, think, and eventually he will appreciate his chosen one more. In fact, being late causes conflicting feelings in males. For some, this is so annoying that they lose the desire to invite the girl to a meeting again. In order not to test a man's patience, you need to be punctual. In rare cases, you can afford to be 5-10 minutes late, but no more. It is imperative to call him and warn him of the delay.
Strange clothes and makeup
When going on a date, many girls try to surprise the chosen one, to impress him. This makes them dress inappropriately, very strange. In order to interest the companion, it is better to refuse from uncomfortable clothes that do not correspond to the occasion and time of day. Men don't like it when their girlfriend comes to a date with very bright, tasteless makeup. If the date is in the afternoon in a cafe, you can wear a light dress, tight pants and a flirty blouse, but not an evening outfit. Many men are irritated by the obsessive smell of perfume, so everything must be kept in moderation.
Bad mood and discontent
When inviting a woman on a date, a man wants to have a good time, chat, get to know each other better. The meeting will be hopelessly ruined if the companion is in a bad mood. A displeased face, nagging, complaints can disappoint any man, especially when there is no reason for a bad mood. If a woman comes to a meeting clearly out of sorts, most likely, they will not want to see her a second time. Of course, this does not mean that you need to try to hide your problems and worries behind a forced smile. In such a situation, it would be better to call the man in advance and agree to postpone the meeting for another day.
Incorrect conversation topics
Talking about inappropriate topics is a common mistake of girls who come on a date and do not know how to behave with a guy, how to please him. Men are annoyed when a companion starts talking about health problems, religion or politics, excess or lack of money, lack of true love. It is better to choose more neutral and interesting topics for communication.
On a date, you don't need to talk a lot about your job, going into the smallest details. Men like to talk about things that interest them, so psychologists advise to closely monitor the partner's feedback. The main taboo topic is past relationships. Men are terribly annoyed when girls who come to a meeting begin to talk about their exes. Sometimes it even seems that the chosen ones do not come alone, but with their ex-lovers, because all the conversations revolve around them. Even if a man himself touches on the topic of past relationships, shows interest, it is better to outline everything in general terms, but in no case scold the ex, not speak badly about him.
Talking on the phone
The habit of talking on the phone, constantly checking private messages, holding the telephone in hand can lead to the fact that a woman will no longer receive a date invitation. Coming to a meeting with a man, it is worth for a while to forget about all the conversations, deeds and pay attention to him. An exception can be made for very important calls.
Talkativeness
Most men perceive the verbosity of a date companion negatively. You don't have to try to tell your companion everything about yourself in one evening. You need to give him the opportunity to prove himself. Sometimes it's helpful to be quiet and listen to what the other person is talking about. This increases the chances of getting the man interested and continuing to communicate.
Plans for the future
Many men confess. that it is extremely unpleasant for them when women, already on their first dates, begin to look into the future, think about joint leisure time, or even make far-reaching plans. Representatives of the stronger sex like to make decisions themselves and be the initiators of further meetings. Do not deprive them of the opportunity to feel their independence. Excessive activity and violation of personal space can only scare away.
