You increasingly began to catch yourself thinking that your relationship is at an impasse, you do not see any new round in them. He did not take your hand at all and at the wrong time, he just eats ice cream awful, and the flowers he gave you … it would be better if he didn’t give it at all. It is unlikely that such a relationship can be breathed into life. You just stopped loving him. Option one - you need to leave. But how to do this without hurting him, because he is not guilty of anything. Most likely, you won't be able to inflict pain at all, but you need to reduce it to a minimum.
Instructions
Step 1
Most importantly, make sure for yourself that this decision is final and you will not change your mind.
Step 2
Under no circumstances do this over the phone. So you won't just hurt him, you will break his heart.
Step 3
You need to honestly and openly talk to him. Language is given to us to speak. Calmly explain to him that it will be best for everyone to stop now, before things get too far. Tell him that he does not have any big flaws, and that he has absolutely nothing to change, it just so happened that the fire in your heart went out. Let him understand that the further continuation of the relationship threatens only with quarrels, and he cannot change this, because the reason is not in him, but in you.
Step 4
Out of sight, out of mind. Try to disappear from his life abruptly, change the phone number, do not appear in places where you can meet. This is not forever, for a while, so that he can forget a little.
