Finally, you met that very beloved and the only one. You are happy and you feel good together. Only one circumstance is a little alarming, that your "prince" was already married. How to properly build a relationship with a man who has a "family past".
Instructions
Step 1
Do not put pressure on your partner and do not immediately make grandiose plans for a joint future. Be patient, if your loved one divorced not very long ago, he is unlikely to be ready to remarry right away. Do not limit the freedom of a man, let your relationship be light, but strong.
Step 2
After a while, carefully make inquiries about your sweetheart's past and the reasons for his divorce. Do not question him with passion, let him tell you himself. Try not to discuss his ex-wife, just listen and take note of the information received. If the reason for the breakup was alcohol, betrayal or unwillingness to provide and devote time to the family, think well, because such "happiness" may await you in the future.
Step 3
Having children that a man has from a previous marriage is one of the most important and difficult moments. You can divorce your wife, but not your child. Do not be jealous and do not demand to devote less time to children, this can be a big mistake on your part. The other extreme is to make friends and become a “second mother” by all means. Choose the middle ground, be friendly, but not intrusive. Do not insist on walking together if you see that it is difficult or unpleasant for a child to be in your company. Children are very upset by the separation of their parents and often see the enemy in their dad's new woman. Let your beloved man calmly communicate with children, over time they will get used to you and the relationship will improve.
Step 4
If you love a man and want to connect your life with him, do not repeat the mistakes of his ex-wife. Ask how he would like to see his beloved woman. The negative experience of family life is also an experience. It is possible that your partner analyzed all the mistakes of the past family life and made conclusions for himself. It is not uncommon that men are much more responsible and serious about a second marriage. Do not rush things, let the relationship develop smoothly. The main thing is for a man to realize that he is much better with you than without you. And it is quite possible that you will receive a marriage proposal even earlier than expected.
