If the husband has children from his first marriage, then in such a situation it is not easy at all to avoid family conflicts and build good relations with the spouse, his children. Not every woman has diplomatic skills. However, don't let your emotions take over. You love this person, and now he is with you. Therefore, it is worth listening to some advice on how to behave in this situation.
Take it for granted
Rather than oppressing oneself with various thoughts, it is better to come to terms with the fact that there will always be children in his life. You can tactfully correct his relationship with children, but you cannot prevent him from communicating with them.
Don't be jealous of your ex
It is no secret that for women it is usually not the husband's children that become a much more annoying factor, but his inevitable communication with their mother. After all, children are a connecting factor. But even in this case, it makes no sense to be jealous. After all, he is with you, and their communication is forced, at least for him.
Be yourself
Do not seek to make friends with the child, forcing yourself to play the role of a good stepmother. Be kind, but natural. A man, in turn, has no right to demand from you love for his child. Everything should be built on a voluntary basis. How will you relate to your neighbors, such is the answer, and if you are natural and open, then communication will be pleasant, without lies and falsehood.
Discuss problems
If the child spends a lot of time in your home, it is better to tactfully define your role: you are the hostess, not the housekeeper. If his children, every now and then make you doubt this, there is no need to play with the "spoiled phone", passing on requests through your husband. Talk to the children yourself.
