Statistics say that more than half of men who have been married for more than 10 years cheat on their wives. Everyone has their own reasons for this, but some do not consider the fact of physical intimacy a betrayal, they do not take such things too seriously.
Long-term relationships lead to cooling feelings. Attachment, respect, tenderness may arise, but former love evaporates without a trace. At the same time, people begin to get bored, feel lonely. Women more often fill their free time with communication with children, implementation at home and at work. This is not enough for a man, and sometimes he is looking for a way to renew emotions, to bring something bright and exciting into life.
Psychological treason
Men may consider sexual relations only a game, they often do not attach much importance to them. When deciding on intimacy, they do not think about the destruction of the family or the betrayal of their spouse, they are just having fun. It might just be fun that doesn't lead to anything more. At the same time, it gives the opportunity to satisfy needs, to experience something new, but without further continuation.
For a man, a psychological union, a new love, is much more serious, when a woman causes not only lust, but also the desire to be around all the time. For such a relationship, men are more likely to experience remorse. Affection, falling in love is considered treason, but if the spouse does not know about it, then you should not worry too much. And often the wife guesses, but closes her eyes so as not to upset herself and the children.
Reasons for cheating
Statistics claim that the cause of adultery often lies within the marriage. Most often, men decide to cheat because of a lack of sex. They do not feel satisfaction, they are constantly in a state of desire, and after a few years of marriage they decide to fulfill their needs. It may even become a necessity if the beloved woman constantly refuses intimacy.
Boredom in bed pushes men to experiment. The second most common reason for "going left" is the lack of something new in the family bed. Again, the lady refuses to experiment, and the repetition of one scenario for many years is boring. And if a man has a chance to try something new with someone else, he will not miss it.
The third reason for treason is the cooling of feelings. When a wife only talks about problems, when only claims are discussed together, it is difficult to remain calm. Lack of attention, lack of faith in a man, constant criticism and coldness push you to rash actions. He begins to look for warmth and love on the side, and until he finds, he will sort out women one by one.
Feature of the first betrayal
It is usually difficult for a man to decide to have sex with a stranger for the first time. Pangs of conscience, shame and feelings begin to visit him. But if no one noticed this, if the spouse did not pay attention to the torment, then why not repeat all this? The lack of sensitivity on the part of a loved one only confirms that this was not a mistake, but a good opportunity to make life more interesting. Accordingly, the repetition becomes less painful, and after a few years the man will very easily say that he is polygamous and has no idea of fidelity.
