For many women, motherhood is happiness and the meaning of life. And when one child grows up, he immediately wants to give birth to a second. But the decision on the birth of the next heir is made not only by the expectant mother, but also by the father. What if your husband is against it?
Instructions
Step 1
Men understand better non-emotional explanations that you would like to feel all the delights of motherhood again. It is necessary to convince them with dry facts. Make a plan for the next few years, in which you write down what your money will be spent on, how much you can allocate for the first and second child, how much remains for food, rent, household appliances, entertainment. A good argument for your husband will be that you have in your account the amount of money that you specially set aside for the birth of your second baby. If you can convince your spouse that you are capable of raising two children, he will make concessions to you much faster.
Step 2
Many men are simply afraid of having a second child. They are afraid that they will not be able to feed their families during your decree, they are afraid that you will not pay enough attention to them. If the first birth was difficult, the man may be afraid of losing you. Only heart-to-heart conversations can help in this. Tell your husband that you have excellent friends doctors who will help with childbirth, that if you do not have enough money, you can rent an apartment that you inherited from your grandmother, promise to give him the maximum attention you can. Convince the man that together you can overcome any difficulties.
Step 3
Remind your husband more often that you do not just want a second child, you want a child from him. Such confessions will cause pride in any man.
Step 4
If you have acquaintances couples with two children, organize a joint vacation: go on a picnic, go to an amusement park. Let your man make sure that families with two babies live in prosperity and enjoy life. However, at the same time, you must be sure that your friends will not start complaining about how difficult it is to raise two, otherwise your spouse will only strengthen his suspicions about this.
Step 5
Monitor your health. After all, the health of the expectant mother is the guarantee of the baby's health. When your spouse realizes that you are thoughtful and conscious about planning your future family member, he will willingly go to meet you.
