It often happens that the husband does not share the woman's desire to have a child. Moreover, we can talk about both the first-born and the second, or third, baby. Some men do not even explain the reason for their refusal, they only begin to monitor protection more closely. However, if the wife receives a negative answer to her offer to fill up the family, she should not give up. You can persuade your spouse, you just need to understand the reasons for his behavior.
Instructions
Step 1
Check with your husband why exactly he does not want to have a child. Perhaps the point is financial, housing problems, the fact that the spouse is not yet ready to take on the responsibility for raising the baby. Calmly listen to your man, make a convincing case for creating a new life. Remind you that material issues are solvable, but age cannot be reversed.
Step 2
Give an example of all your friends, relatives, colleagues, where there are children. Praise male fathers who work with their children, paint in colors how they have fun. It is important to let the husband understand that with the appearance of a baby in the family, life does not end, but acquires new colors.
Step 3
Invite your spouse to go to a family planning center to get all the tests they need. Some men are afraid that they will not be able to conceive the first time, which will make their self-esteem try. If the test results are good, they will give the husband confidence. If bad, you can start treatment.
Step 4
Tell your husband how happy and proud you will be to see in the child his features, habits, and character traits. Look through your baby photo albums, imagine what kind of eyes, lips your baby can have. Try to captivate your spouse by coming up with a name, find out who he would like more: a boy or a girl, and why.
