Many parents often have to forbid something to their child. However, not everyone knows that there are two types of prohibitions: prohibitions that are useful for the child and prohibitions that destroy the personality of the baby.
TOP 3 most destructive parental prohibitions.
What cannot be prohibited:
1. Prohibit dressing yourself. Many parents do not allow their child to dress independently in the clothes that have been chosen by them. Most children resist this kind of “caring”. When parents form a wardrobe for a child every day, they make him dependent on other people's opinions. Accordingly, the baby grows up dependent.
2. Forbid to have an opinion. It is convenient for parents that their opinions coincide with those of children. Inconsistency of opinions often leads to misunderstandings, conflicts and discord. However, the child must have his own opinion, thanks to this, he will develop critical thinking. The greatest discoveries in the world are made by people who once did not believe the opinion of others. Having your own opinion means looking at the world soberly. Try to ask your child's opinion more often.
3. A ban on the right to be yourself. Parents often comment on their toddler if he is slow, loud, or talkative. Prohibitions of this kind have a destructive effect on the manifestation from the best side of the property that is programmed in a given person. After all, the world does not need the same people. If you cultivate the properties with which a person is born, he will certainly achieve great results in later life.
You need to accept those inclinations with which your child was born and take them into account in the upbringing process.
