The first date with a girl may well end in her apartment. However, this does not mean at all that the girl is already ready for sex. In order to persuade her, you have to try.
If after the first date you came to the girl's home, or she herself agreed to visit you, you already have every chance of intimacy. A cozy and calm atmosphere reigns around you, inviting to intimacy. Take the initiative and try to get into proactive seduction of your beloved soulmate. If you hear from her refusal, she will probably explain to you some reason. Sometimes it happens that the girl says that you know too little. In this case, you can simply ignore her words and play silent. Continue to gently touch her body, then the girl herself may think about what spoils the importance of the atmosphere with her remarks.
The second option is your consent. You can silently nod your head, as if admitting that you are ready to wait. However, do not remove your hand from her body at all, but move it to a more neutral place, for example, on the shoulder. Start a friendly conversation, as a result of which your attractive interlocutor will be imbued with confidence in you and, possibly, will take the initiative herself. Here it is not so much about trust as a blow to her pride. She may think that you don't want her enough because you gave up so quickly. That is why in the future she herself may try to seduce you.
Do not forget that girls are very fond of romantic men. Just in case, save the flower delivery service number in your mobile phone before the date. As soon as the courier brings them to the apartment, where you will spend time with your new friend, the girl will be very surprised. At this point, she will be confused, and her mood will clearly improve. At this time, you can start taking action. Just do not be too persistent, otherwise your beautiful soulmate may think that you are trying to bribe her.
If the girl decides to use another excuse and says she's on critical days, you can still get intimate with her if you want to. Just cover her body with light and gentle kisses, but do not touch the most sensitive part of her body. After some time, feeling strong excitement, the girl may not resist the temptation, throw aside all her complexes, feelings of shame and still agree to belong to you.
If a girl refuses you without explaining the reasons, think about what might be the reason for this refusal. Perhaps you drank too much alcohol at dinner or ate some garlic dish. Such strong odors can be killed with bay leaves, coffee beans or lemon wedges.
