The birth of twins is a double joy for parents, but also worries and troubles, multiplied by two. Tips on how spouses cope with having twins.
Instructions
Step 1
It's time to train yourself to be organized. Tune in to the fact that you always need to remain collected sane. Correctly set goals, the adoption of general rules for the whole family, order in everything, important factors that will help spouses cope with everyday difficulties.
Step 2
All parents try to become the best for their children and strive to cope with all the affairs and worries on their own. You should not refuse an outstretched helping hand. If relatives and friends are trying to help you in every possible way, accept their help with gratitude. Even if you do not trust your children to anyone, ask for help with cleaning, cooking, and buying the necessary products. Do not refuse help out of politeness, the time will come, and you will certainly return the debt to your assistant.
Step 3
Look at everything with optimism. Do not allow yourself to be upset and grieved, even if it seems that your twins will drive you crazy. Imagine those women who cannot have children and would give everything for such chores, which make you upset.
Step 4
Make sure to arrange a vacation for two, for the parents, and not for the twins. Spend an evening together, go to the cinema in a cafe, visit friends. So that you can carve out some time for yourself, your family and friends will be happy to sit with the children, in extreme cases, you can hire a professional nanny who will not let your twins get bored and take care of them properly.
Step 5
Personal time. Each of the spouses should have personal time, which he devotes exclusively to himself, which is important. Only the person who can satisfy his needs and sometimes allows himself to relax can remain calm and collected. Plan your overall schedule so that you can take turns doing what you want for a small amount of time. Let one of the spouses go for a walk with the kids, either on their own or with someone's help, take care of them.
Step 6
Save yourself the right to make mistakes. Don't get hung up on what you did wrong. A person cannot know everything in the world. By making a mistake, you expand your knowledge and do not repeat the mistake again. You are not superhuman and you cannot demand the impossible from yourself.
