The age difference does not prevent lovers from being together. Only the attitude of others to such a union can interfere. The future of a couple is determined not by the number in the passport, but by their compatibility and commonality of views.
Public opinion is wary and misunderstood towards such couples. Some think that a girl is dating a grown man for the sake of money, others sympathize with her - he will not even be able to satisfy her. Therefore, it is worth considering whether you are able to ignore the condemnation and ridicule of others.
Relationship problems
But the real problems start when your parents or friends are bad about your choices. Many people may feel uncomfortable. Friends do not know what to talk about with a man who is suitable for fathers. And parents cannot perceive their peer as the boyfriend of their daughter. It may turn out that they will never be able to communicate well, and the girl will have to be torn between them.
In the wake of falling in love, you can ignore differences in views and disputes in small things. But if you want to start a family, think seriously and determine your compatibility. It is necessary to discuss all issues that will be important in the future. Does he want a child, how many children, when is the best time to give birth to a baby, who will do the housework, whether the wife will work and other issues.
The couple are from different generations, and interests can vary greatly. Young people are energetic and curious. I want to see the world, do active sports and just spend time outside the home. But the older a person is, the faster he gets tired. It is possible that your couple will want to spend time at home or walk in a nearby park all their lives. And you will feel in a cage, unable to fulfill your dreams.
Do not forget about the sad fact - men live less than women. And if you have an age difference of 15 years, it may turn out that you will become a widow early. It is very painful to survive a loved one with whom you have lived half your life, especially if you have minor children.
Pros of a relationship
But if the age difference is less than 10 years, it won't hit your relationship as hard. Especially if your outlook on life coincides, you know how to negotiate and resolve conflicts peacefully. You will get a wise, experienced partner, most likely, who has already achieved something in life and is ready for family life.
