Men and women born under the sign of Cancer have a subtle nature and an incredibly rich inner world. At the same time, they are considered the most prudent among all the signs of the zodiac, and therefore they can look closely at new people for quite a long time. To get to know Cancer and start more or less close communication with him, you may need a considerable amount of patience: you will have to wait until the cautious Cancer is convinced of your honest intentions and lets you in.
Instructions
Step 1
Best of all, representatives of this zodiac sign feel in quiet places, where a relaxed atmosphere and a calm atmosphere reign. Cancers love to spend time with family and close friends, but you can rarely meet them in noisy companies. Therefore, if you decide to get acquainted with Cancer, it is best to look for representatives of this sign in small cozy establishments where they can spend time with friends.
Step 2
It is quite difficult to recognize a Cancer man in appearance, since usually representatives of this sign dress in a simple conservative style and do not outwardly stand out from other people. Most Cancer women love a romantic style of dress, but recognizing them by their appearance is also difficult. But both men and women born under this sign are easily recognizable by their demeanor: they are calm, restrained and tactful, have extraordinary delicacy in communication and are excellent listeners.
Step 3
To please Cancer, it is important to behave naturally from the very first minutes of communication. This sign of the zodiac is one of the most insightful, it easily recognizes the falsity and pretense in the behavior of people. If you try to strike up an acquaintance with active flirting and meaningful glances, your attempts are likely to be doomed to failure. You need to "get close" to Cancer carefully and slowly, so the best way to successfully get to know him is to strike up a regular conversation and behave simply and openly so that Cancer feels as comfortable as possible during the conversation.
Step 4
Cancer can be wary of overly sociable people. A man born under this zodiac sign is more likely to pay attention to a calm and sweet girl than to a bright and talkative person, therefore, when meeting a Cancer man, you should not be too active. The Cancer woman will give preference to a confident, but at the same time, outwardly restrained man, next to whom she will feel safe. You also need to start communicating with her slowly and not allowing yourself any actions that she can perceive as obsession or pressure.
Step 5
Remember that Cancers do not like too violent emotional manifestations. Any little things, even too loud or fast speech, can alert Cancer, and then he can close in himself or step aside, not wanting to continue communication. But this does not mean at all that when communicating with him you need to be quiet in the literal sense. Just to please Cancer, you will need to "tune in to his wave": try to prove yourself a delicate, benevolent and frank interlocutor.
Step 6
In order for the acquaintance to continue and get chances for development, you will have to take the initiative into your own hands. Both men and women of this sign are rather shy, so you can wait for the first step from them or even any hints of it for a very long time. But if you managed to get Cancer interested in sincere and benevolent behavior, be sure that he will not mind continuing the communication. Take him to a movie, a cozy restaurant, or an ordinary walk in the park, and he will surely not refuse the invitation.
