Affection is a feeling that develops over time. There is no attachment at first sight. This means that in order to bind a loved one to yourself, you need to make a lot of effort. The results of these efforts are sometimes the most unpredictable, but the risk is always worth it.
Instructions
Step 1
Forget all sorts of charlatans: witches, sorcerers, etc. In our time, it has become very popular to bewitch young people. Open a newspaper or a website on the Internet - you will definitely see such an ad: the services of a witch who, for a certain fee, will help you cope with all the problems. Remember, there are no problems that go nowhere. If you are lucky, you simply will not get any result, and if you are not lucky, you can harm yourself or your loved one (after all, they may advise you to drink any solutions, infusions, medications that are not always useful). As the popular wisdom says, you cannot be forcibly sweet.
Step 2
Don't confuse love and being in love. These are completely different concepts. Ask yourself how much you love the person. After all, it may happen that you will strive for it for a long time and, finally, achieve a result. But you will understand the saddest thing - you no longer need it. And instead of happiness, you will experience deep disappointment.
Step 3
Get sympathy from your loved one. This is the very little with which a great feeling can arise. You don't need to do anything extraordinary for this. You can just talk and show your best side: avoid silly grins, try to say reasonable things, find out his interests. Listen as much as possible. Firstly, you can get useful information about him, and secondly, all men love when they are listened to carefully - this gives them significance. If you look good in this conversation, he will probably think that you are cute and smart.
Step 4
Try to spend more time together. In this case, you need not to push your loved one away with your importunity. Offer him your help at work or in school (in the matter in which you can really help). Go to a movie or cafe together. Do not be embarrassed if the offer comes from you, because you are offering to just chat. If you've known each other for several days, invite your loved one for lunch or dinner. The ability to cook well will be a big plus for you. No wonder they say: the way to a man's heart lies through his stomach. Of course, you should not feed him - you need to know when to stop in everything. The main thing is that he understands that he is good with you, that you are the one and only for him. When you achieve this, the beloved will already become so attached to you that he will not want to let go.
