Americans believe that they know everything about sexual relations, since they have Steve Harvey, a popular TV presenter and bestselling author of "it". He recommends that women use the Ninety-Day No Sex Rule. This writer told how you can tie a man to yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, understand that having sex alone will not tie a young man to you. Before you enter into intimacy with a person, get to know the man well. Steve Harvey believes that girls are mistaken that sex immediately after dating can help them tie a young guy to themselves. Therefore, he recommends that young ladies adopt this "Rule of ninety days without sex." What is its meaning? And the essence of the rule is that a girl should not rush into bed with a new acquaintance. And three months is a short time for a guy to become attached to a girl. During this time, they get to know each other, focusing on the acquired knowledge about a person.
Step 2
Pay special attention to the fact that a man is willing to go to great lengths just to have sex with a girl. After all, his desire to get satisfaction from intimacy is irresistible. A woman must understand that this is only a sexual act, nothing more. The young man does not experience any difficulties and at the same time does not torment himself when he leaves the woman immediately after intimacy. Do not be held captive by such a deep delusion that sex will help to tie a partner to you. Unfortunately, relationships that are wholly involved in carnal pleasures do not lead to emotional attachment to people of the opposite sex.
Step 3
Observe how the man behaves in bed. If he does not love the girl, then he absolutely does not need to be with her until the morning. At the same time, the man does not squeeze his partner in his arms. The guy does not need to talk to her, dream and make future plans together. And if he stays for the night, it is only to gently hug her to him, when everything has already happened. Perhaps the man does it for selfishness - he just wants to meet the girl a few more times to get sexual release.
Step 4
Consider whether to continue your relationship with this guy. This is most likely not your soul mate. He will not stay with you because he does not meet your standards and conditions, and also does not show any interest in what is required for a happy and lasting relationship. He does not even try to put feelings into these relationships, he cannot understand why this is so necessary. So why would you tie a guy like that to you? Well, if you fell in love with a man and want to live with him until the end of your life, then during these three months you need to try to get to know each other.
Step 5
Connect your boyfriend to what you've been doing alone before. Joint hobbies can have a great effect in spiritual rapprochement. A great option is to start cooking together. Mimicking some of his tastes will also bring you closer. For example, buy clothes from the same brand that he wears, or watch the TV shows he chooses. Thus, having found similarities in interests and tastes, he will experience some warmth and tenderness for you.
Step 6
Respect the privacy of your loved one. The guy should feel independent and have the right to his personal space. At the same time, you should not delve into a cell phone in the absence of its owner. Enjoy each other's presence. Go to the cinema, theater, exhibitions together, arrange a trip to nature. If you are sincerely happy next to your loved one, then the man will stay with you and acquire a true spiritual paradise with his chosen one.
