Many young couples start their life together in a small apartment, or even in a dorm room. There comes a moment of adjustment in everyday life, which is complicated by the fact that the spouses literally "step on each other's heels." In one corner the husband is soldering something, in the other the child has built a tower of your pots, in the third there is a pile of clothes. How to learn to live in any environment without quarrels and irritation?
Instructions
Step 1
First, relax. If you feel that a wave of anger rolls over you, the best way out is not to rush to your family. Have some tea, find a corner where you feel comfortable. Go out to the balcony, breathe in the air of the street. Brush the whiskey with peppermint cream and sit for a while. This will relieve stress.
Step 2
Now let's think together what we can do. It is necessary to create a common rest and nutrition regime for all, if possible. Then it will be more convenient and easier to put things in order, and a little order will appear in this sea of chaos. Then, if, for example, your husband has a lot of activity at home and occupied the entire space, then the best option for you would be to walk a little. Learn to clean up after yourself everything in its place at once, immediately wash the dishes, prepare clothes and shoes in the evening. Combine several activities, such as visiting this site and preparing food. Be sure to organize "your" corner, where only your things will be. This could be a small table. Ventilate the room often, dust off every other day.
Step 3
Now let's think about how to avoid family quarrels for the future. Firstly, if the apartment is small, observe minimalism in furniture and technology. Solid light wallpaper and fresh air will reduce the level of irritability. Most importantly, be physically active outside the home! Spend energy in a sports club or outdoors, often get out "in the people". Even if it will be a walk in the park with a dog or a trip to visit. Then all emotions will be wasted outside the home, and you will not want to argue about the "wrong mug"
