You live a measured, calm life. And then a person falls down like snow on his head. Some kind of relationship is struck between you that you cannot understand and characterize in any way. Perhaps this is falling in love? Let's figure it out.
Instructions
Step 1
What is falling in love and how to distinguish it from true love? All relationships begin with easy falling in love. Falling in love is when you like a person not for specific merits or actions, but just like that. Unfortunately, this is a temporary condition that ends sooner or later. A storm of emotions, the brightness of feelings. Falling in love is a hormonal explosion, so to speak. Endorphin, serotonin, adrenaline, norepinephrine mixed.
Step 2
Scientists have found that when a person looks at a photograph of his lover, a huge amount of dopamine is released into his blood. His emotional state is close in its indicators to cocaine intoxication. Falling in love is a drug. Like all wonderful things, it does not last long - on average, one and a half to two years.
Step 3
Falling in love is still not real love. We can say that this is one of the steps towards it. You are fascinated by each other, hold hands, spend all your free time together, but you should have some common hobbies, interests, and not just physical intimacy. Otherwise, such a relationship is doomed to failure.
Step 4
Falling in love is lightness. You are at the peak of your emotions. Do not demand anything from your partner. You are not trying to change anything about it. And what to change, because he is already perfect. The ability to think sensibly and reason leaves us for a while. The feeling of being in love cannot be compared to anything else. Simplicity, mutual understanding, selfless happiness. All this goes away gradually, just try to delay this sad moment as far as possible. Be on top of the world, enjoy the moment.
