While philosophers argue about the existence of friendship between a man and a woman, mere mortals are forced to independently solve the problems of relations with the opposite sex. There are friendly companies, in which there are approximately equal shares of men and women (as a rule, boys and girls, since large friendly companies often consist of young people). Sooner or later, it becomes difficult to call a man's feelings for one of his friends friendly. To change the situation, invite the girl to date.
Instructions
Step 1
Suggest that your friend just take a walk together. Tell them you want to talk about something serious. Choose the place for your walk. Best options: cafe, park, just a walk down the street. Bad options: cinema, theater, disco. You need to establish contact and eliminate distraction by loud music, video sequences, or other activities. Naturally, as a man, you will pay the bills in a cafe, even if it is customary in the company to pay for yourself.
Step 2
Bring a small gift for your date: flowers, chocolate, a book. She should immediately feel your concern.
Step 3
You don't have to start the conversation right off the bat. Discuss general topics first: events in the company, in the city, in the country. Move to the most important moment only when both are comfortable and relaxed.
Step 4
Start declaring your love with something like this: "You know, Katya, I don't want to be friends with you anymore." Wait for her reaction, but ignore her. Continue: “I like you as a woman and I want to be your man. Do you want to date me?"
Step 5
In any formulation of recognition, you must demonstrate your strong masculinity, a willingness to start a business and continue, despite obstacles. Even if you are in a humble environment, the choice of a woman depends more on the strength shown by you and the ability to be caring.