It is believed that one of the purposes of a woman is to create home comfort. In addition, it is the woman who most of all controls everything that happens in the family. Not all men approve of this, but still they are ready to agree with some points. However, a woman should understand that there is something untouchable in a man's life and it is absolutely impossible to violate the boundaries of this territory.
What is so important for a man that it can only belong to him?
First of all, these are his relatives: mom, dad, brothers, sisters. In short, everyone with whom he has family ties. For many men, the mother's opinion remains the most important, regardless of whether he lives next to her or not. Mom's opinion can come first when choosing a car, apartment, job, vacation trip, change of residence. Of course, the husband will discuss these issues with his wife, but the point of view of relatives, and especially the mother, can influence the final decision.
It is most reasonable in this situation not to create a conflict, not to try to convince a man right after he received advice from relatives, not to prove that everything should be discussed with his wife first of all, and then speak with his mother. A wise woman will simply remain silent if she realizes that the situation is not in her favor, and if she wants to return to the discussion, then only after a while. If you try to turn your husband against his relatives, the result can be disastrous.
For a man, his friends are very important. But sometimes there are situations when the appearance of friends is completely out of place, in the opinion of a woman. Instead of doing something around the house, the husband goes to a football match or fishing. Arguing with a man in such a situation is almost useless. This can only lead to conflict and quarrel.
It is better to give a man the opportunity to meet with his comrades, and to do personal affairs, chat with a girlfriend or go to a beauty salon. So it becomes possible to maintain excellent relations between spouses. Even if a woman believes that friends are not friends at all, it will not work to convince a man of this.
A man also treats his hobbies with great trepidation. Whether he collects stamps or badges, collects model airplanes or plays computer games, this is sacred to him. Not every woman is able to adequately perceive her husband's hobbies, but if she does not want a conflict, then it is better to agree that a man will spend part of his free time on hobbies that are important to him.
For a man, it is necessary that each of his things lie where he put it. This includes the phone, notebook, tools or collections that he collects. Even if a general cleaning is carried out in the house, his belongings should as a result remain where he put them. So a man feels his own comfort in his territory and protects it in every possible way. Perhaps it is better to agree right away that the man will clean up on his desk or in the closet himself, because the woman respects what belongs only to him, and thus maintains a comfortable environment for him.
If a wife constantly interferes in her husband's affairs, tries to prevent him from meeting with friends, restricts her own freedom, which is very valuable for a man, then this is a big mistake that can lead to serious disagreements in the family.
The husband, although he is the second half, has every right to independence, hobbies, rest, even if the wife does not like it. Finding a compromise means maintaining a great relationship within the family.
