When a boy and a girl get married, they do everything they can to ensure that their happiness lasts forever. However, the mother-in-law often interferes in their relationship.
You took her son's love away from her. This is the opinion of the overwhelming majority of mothers-in-law. Before you met your future husband, she and my mother were very close. She created delicious dishes for him and repaired his clothes. Now her "boy" has begun to spend a lot of time with you. Here it is not surprising that the mother-in-law feels jealous.
The mother-in-law often thinks that you will not be able to take good care of her son - this is the main mistake. In such situations, the spouse is usually unaware of the problem.
It is rather difficult to get out of this situation. First of all, realize that your spouse loves both your mom and you. However, this love is too different. Therefore, it is advisable for you to live separately from your husband's mother. If you do not yet have enough funds for this, then you will have to talk frankly with your life partner. He should ask your mom not to interfere with your relationship. You must follow the basic rules of courtesy. Be sure to keep your husband's belongings clean and feed him delicious meals.
"You are not a couple!" There are cases when the husband's mother thinks that her son could choose another woman as his wife. Naturally, all mothers-in-law want to have grandchildren. However, each lady has her own ideas about what an ideal daughter-in-law should be. Therefore, you should not be amazed that you do not meet these criteria.
As a rule, mothers want their son to marry a modest and attractive girl who has a high-paying job and a higher education, knows how to manage a house and loves children. However, even if the fair half has these qualities, the mother-in-law may note that the daughter-in-law does not know how to sew / knit or behaves incorrectly in society.
Here you should be aware that the choice of a life partner depends on the man, and not on his parent. If he decided to marry you, then this indicates that you meet his criteria. So don't prove to your husband's mom that you are the perfect spouse. Remember that it is useless for her to please in every little thing. Don't go to scandals. After a certain period of time, you will still have new housing. In addition, the mother-in-law will sooner or later stop conflicting with you.
