Long-term marriages are disheartening for some people. In pursuit of new sensations and vivid emotions, they neglect family peace and have an affair on the side. After a while, for some reason, they decide to end the relationship on the side. But sometimes it is not so easy to do it.
Instructions
Step 1
First, decide for yourself whether you are losing something important, without which you cannot continue to live. You may be deprived of significant material support. Think it might be worthwhile to postpone the break. Wait for your lover to go broke.
Step 2
Have you decided to leave? It is necessary to take into account the temperament of the lover (mistress). Talk openly in a calm atmosphere about your intention if he or she is a level-headed person. He (she) will understand everything. Try to stay, if not friends, then at least maintain a positive relationship.
Step 3
It will be more difficult to communicate this to an emotional person. Be wary of an inadequate reaction (a stream of swear words, a slap in the face from a lover, a slap in the face from a mistress). Then, in this case, you made the really right decision to break up.
Step 4
Perhaps expect revenge on the part of a lover (mistress). Have the courage to tell your husband (wife). In this situation, they will find out everything, even if they were not in the know.
Step 5
Report the breakup by email or letter. Maybe you will remain pen pals.
Step 6
If he doesn't understand well, throw tantrums over trifles, control movement around the city, demand expensive gifts. The lover will quickly get tired of it, he will leave you himself.
Step 7
If the lover is not married, offer to formalize the relationship in the hope that he will refuse and disappear. But consider his reaction (and suddenly he will be delighted and agree).
Step 8
Just say that the relationship is bored, the lover (mistress) too. Such a statement will offend the person and he (she) will leave.
Step 9
Do not dare to tell your lover (mistress) about parting, think, can it be easier to tell your husband (wife) about it? Have you ever imagined such a situation? Perhaps this is a great solution, and you will find yourself in a better situation than the current one.
