Deceit, insincerity is a very bad quality. It is no coincidence that even the Bible says: "Who once lied, who will believe you?" Perhaps one of the strongest disappointments that a girl in love can experience is to catch her young man in a lie. Especially if it happens repeatedly. The girl with shame and shock comes to the conclusion: she fell in love with a liar. How to behave when you discover that your beloved is lying?
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, don't let your emotions run wild. Although it is difficult, one must still try to calmly and calmly think it over. The main task: to determine for what reason your young man, let's say delicately, is prone to fantasy.
Step 2
Maybe he just has too much imagination? And the fictions were relatively harmless? Then there is nothing to worry about. You should only talk to the guy delicately, asking him to restrain himself: after all, you can easily get carried away, cross the border. And then his fantasies will no longer be a harmless joke. Remind him that you still need to be realistic, that everything is fine in moderation.
Step 3
Or is he trying, in a simple way, to "show off"? Alas, many people tend to portray themselves as a more important person than they really are, for a variety of reasons. For example, a guy comes from a simple family and has just started working in a very modest position. And the girl is from a higher social group. Even if in her behavior there is not even a hint of snobbery, arrogance, the young man may be tormented by doubts: will she want to communicate with him, having learned about his modest status? And he raises himself to a higher level. Naturally, sooner or later the guy's deception will be revealed, just like in the good old film "The Mustache Nanny" - when the "secret physicist" turned out to be a kindergarten teacher.
Step 4
How should a girl behave in such a situation? It depends on your character, upbringing, depth of feelings for a young man, finally. In any case, you need to seriously talk to him, explaining that in this case, the lie was not only inappropriate, but also very offensive to you. Indeed, by doing so, he demonstrated that he does not believe, that he doubts the sincerity of your love! And, besides, he exposed not only himself to ridicule, but also his beloved.
Step 5
You can forgive the guy, but warn him that you will no longer tolerate lies. If he values your relationship, let him be honest.
Step 6
If, over and over again, you happened to convict your young man in a lie, then you can only advise one thing: to forget him as soon as possible. There are enough decent, honest guys in the world who can be trusted, who will not be deceived. And you can't create happiness with an incorrigible liar.
