From all sides we are enlightened how often, for a long time, one should indulge in amorous pleasures. But is it worth taking seriously the attitudes in the erotic life that the environment inspires?
Instructions
Step 1
Another topic that raises doubts about "normal" sexuality is the frequency of intimate contact. Regular lovemaking is nowadays considered a must for a healthy lifestyle, like exercising or a diet rich in fiber. "A person is healthy only for the first five minutes after intercourse!" - exhorts the TV presenter in a white coat. If intimacy happens once a week or less often, this is a reason to suspect a partner in coldness or, even worse, connections are on the side.
Step 2
In fact, you should not rush to accuse and turn love joys into a duty. Indeed, according to numerous surveys, one of the most important values for a man in marriage is good sex. But good doesn't always mean frequent. And strong marriages have periods of abstinence. The most common reasons are pregnancy, caring for small children, fatigue or problems of loved ones. In addition, sometimes sex drive "falls asleep", for example, in the first year after the birth of a child.
Step 3
First, it's a good idea to answer the question: how much sex do you want? Your body requires it, is it necessary "for health" or to please a man? And what does the partner want? And if yours once a week are the same, it just can't be rare!
Step 4
It is important to understand that periods without sex are as natural as a series of stormy nights while on vacation, away from stress and worries. Therefore, develop a positive attitude towards breaks. Look for pluses in them: does abstinence increase your desire? If, due to stress or busyness, intimacy rarely happens, turn it into a real celebration of pleasure. It's better this way than regular sex for show.
However, if rare sex is a consequence of relationship problems, you need to solve them as soon as possible or contact a specialist.
