Intimate life plays a big role in the life of a spouse. But it is far from the main one. There are more important things. The biggest misconception is that sex should be the same as it was at the beginning of the relationship.
Instructions
Step 1
Being in love is a wonderful time. Everything is so new, bright, unfamiliar. Uncertainty excites and attracts, and a loved one seems to be perfect, devoid of flaws. It is not surprising that we recall this time with love and tenderness and sometimes regret not returning it.
Step 2
In fact, waiting for a constant intensity of passions in a relationship is like dreaming of eternal youth. This attitude is harmful and can provoke divorce. A moment comes when the spouses understand: desire does not arise by itself, in order to wake it up, you need to make efforts. Even if the attraction is still strong, the effect of novelty disappears - intimate life may seem insipid and joyless. And instead of adding variety to the usual ritual, men have mistresses in search of what they have lost, and women complain bitterly: all men are weaklings.
Step 3
Feel free to talk about your needs, ask your partner what is especially pleasant for him, learn and experiment. Moreover, the last two points are easy to master in the era of the Internet. Desire "falls asleep" when spouses move away from each other. Therefore, it is so important to maintain interest in your partner, even if it seems to you that you have studied him for a long time. Each person changes during his life, which means there is a chance to discover something new in him.
