Starting life over again is sometimes extremely necessary. However, this should not turn into an escape from negative events that have already taken place. Trying to change his life in such circumstances, a person wants to forget about the past, he flees from himself, it is like fleeing from a sinking ship without a life buoy. Starting a new life is truly extremely difficult, but quite possible.
Forget about the past and live life to the fullest
Try to forget about past negative events in your life. A psychologist can help you to do this in the most correct way. It is very difficult to forget past events, however, as a rule, a person tends to remember only good things, so over time, with the help of professionals, everything will work out. Start living your life to the fullest. Just do what you like best. Remember that life is short, and it is given to a person only once, do it in such a way as to live it the best.
Stop complaining about life, this will only make others see only negative sides in you, you will be boring and weak of character. Communicate only with positive and cheerful people, they will keep you positive thoughts.
Don't do what you don't like
Take a piece of paper and write down a list of things you don't like to do. Study it carefully and try to stop doing them. This does not mean, for example, that you need to quit going to school just because you don’t like studying, but if you don’t like your job, you may consider changing it to another.
If you are unable to make such changes, try to find the positive aspects of what you have, look for ways to make them more meaningful. For example, if you do not like cleaning the house, do it fully consciously, turn this process into a meditation rite. You will be surprised at the calmness of your mind and the pleasure that you will receive from your work.
Be frugal
Keep track of your finances, you should not part with money easily, even if you are a very kind person and are ready to help anyone who asks for your help. If you want to start a new life in a new city or even a country, you just need to learn how to manage your cash flow. You must calculate your expenses in advance, do not bring yourself to the point of being left without money in a place that is not yours.
Stay realistic
Any changes in life are not easy for a person, do not try to bring too many changes into it, this can lead to the opposite effect. The first positive changes can be offset by new problems. For example, trying to quit smoking, lose weight, exercise, etc. at the same time. is doomed to failure, you will overwhelm yourself, thus, with unbearable work. If you set yourself a number of important tasks that should change your life, solve them gradually, prioritizing them.
