Uncertainty has always frightened humanity. People are afraid of depth, darkness, many other unknowns precisely because they do not know what to expect from this. This is the case with anal sex, which has been "overgrown" with a number of legends. Let's take a look at the most popular myths about anal sex.
Pain during anal sex
Perhaps this myth can be attributed to the most important misconceptions. Alice Dweck is a MD, she states that there should be no pain during anal sex, if you take your time, do not forget about lubrication. In general, the muscles of the anus are much denser when compared to the vaginal muscles. So you need to start very delicately - there is no way without preliminary caresses! This will help avoid pain when you get to the point.
No pleasure
The ladies do not have a prostate, therefore, what kind of pleasure can we talk about during anal sex? Even here, Dweck is ready to dissuade women: pleasure is achieved due to the fact that the anus itself is not a weak erogenous zone. There are a large number of nerve endings, and blood vessels too. A survey was conducted, during which it was found that 94% of women experience an orgasm with this type of sex.
Down with condoms
An equally widespread myth says that here you can safely forget about condoms. What for? After all, a girl cannot get pregnant through this place. But what about viruses, bacteria? Any microcrack in the anus will easily "let" them in! Therefore, condoms are needed here, in addition, they will help to avoid pain during intercourse due to additional sliding. Just do not have complex sex in the same condom.
Dirty sex
Many girls are afraid of anal sex, believing that the intestines will let them down at the most crucial moment. It is only worth considering that most of the digestive products are located in the intestines so deeply that neither the partner's fingers nor his penis can simply reach. But it is still worth visiting the ladies' room before this action. Well, if you are so worried, then prepare for anal sex in advance - use an enema, there is nothing shameful about it, but you will be much calmer!
Stretching
Many ladies are afraid that their sphincter can stretch after such an experience. Sometimes this is the only thing that stops them from such an experiment. But the muscle tissue of the anus is quite elastic, it will remain in good shape. Of course, if you do not get too carried away with sex toys of huge sizes.
Anal sex is not for men
Heterosexuals don't like this kind of sex - it's also a myth! The prostate in men is located between the ovaries and the anus - it is responsible for ejaculation. Hence, anal stimulation can give a man an unforgettable orgasm! So many heterosexuals are open to this kind of experimentation.
Whether or not to engage in anal sex is up to you! In any case, this type of sex is a great way to diversify your intimate life.
