Living every day according to the same scenario, living side by side with the same people - not in everything, maybe congruent with you - you can reach white heat in the monotony of days, monotonous melancholy and despondency. Relatives one way or another "get bored", and everyday flooring becomes a fertile ground for quarrels and conflicts, discord.
Instructions
Step 1
Go "by contradiction" - do not interact. Take a break from the tension of the "neighborhood", keep all your contacts to a minimum, be laconic and restrained. In those minimum necessary dialogues that you have to conduct, be as correct and delicate as possible. Do not try to rip off anger and irritation on a relative, during an internal "crisis" it is better to just do something easy, not burdensome and enjoyable - for example, listen to beautiful music, take a bath, have a cup of delicious hot tea.
Step 2
The family is the stronghold of the soul and body - the most valuable thing that a person can have. In the family, he seeks support, consolation and hope in difficult periods of life, with his family he shares his joys and experiences. All hardships and adversities seem to be surmountable when you feel support under your feet, when you feel your intrinsic value and relevance. But what if there is a “house”, but there is no “need”?
Step 3
An interesting common cause can save a family schooner from sinking. "Patch up" the bottom. Try to write a joint book "co-authored" with each other. Sing a kind song together and write it down. Finally, go on a camping trip in a friendly company: this is the best "rope course" that mankind has invented. In nature, there are no "friends" and "aliens", there is no "friend" and "alien", there is only a team united by a joint journey, overcoming obstacles, striving for the final destination. Feel your neighbor's elbow.
Step 4
Gently and unobtrusively take an interest in the affairs of your neighbors, their mood, and success. Do not close the "iron curtain" from each other, even if you are offended by something. Building walls does not resolve contradictions and does not help to better understand the opponent one iota. Mutual rejection, estrangement and alienation only postpone the "hour of judgment", when everything is chaotic and in chorus will begin to sort things out, and make it inevitable.
Step 5
It is believed that cats are "antennas" connecting the earthly world with the other world. These warm, mysterious and lovable creatures can bring your family together as well. How can you swear when such a lovely creature lies on your knees? Get yourself a pet and name it, for example, "Mira", and then you will have a "cat of the World" at your home. However, you can also come up with an original name for your furry girlfriend at the family council, if you can, of course, organize it.
