How nice it is to be in the circle of your loved ones - second halves, children, parents. At the same time, it is important that the relationship is filled with love and mutual understanding. To achieve harmonious interaction in the family, you need to work a little.
Instructions
Step 1
Learn the art of listening. Listening to your husband who comes home from work, or a child happily talking about wonderful experiences in the garden, you establish contact with them. It is best to discuss the day's events, as well as things that worry your family members, over a dinner or lunch together. Ask your loved ones about how they are doing, how they enjoyed the day, and what they have planned for the weekend.
Step 2
Establish a tradition of spending time with the whole family. This can be family fun movies on Sundays, traditional dinners at scheduled times, or cultural cinema visits once a month. Such events will help all family members get closer, share their experiences, tell each other about problems and ask for advice.
Step 3
Do not scandal with loved ones. If you feel that the boil will soon burst out with great force, take some action. You can express negative emotions by writing down the reason for your resentment on paper and tearing it into small pieces, beat a pillow or punching bag. Emotions need to be expressed, but not necessarily on those you love - this can upset them. This point is especially relevant for children, since they are more susceptible than adults, and this can cause them a lot of unpleasant sensations.
Step 4
Do not take quarrels in public. By sharing your experiences with other people, you are giving your family's energy to the outside. It is better to speak directly with your family members about all problems, misunderstandings and misunderstandings. Let this take additional time, however, in this way you can, firstly, solve the problem "without leaving the cash register", and secondly, save energy in the family. The accumulated energy, as you know, is capable of working miracles: forgiving the most serious offenses, healing the sick and even saving people from accidents.
Step 5
Hug your family. A hug is able to unite people, wordlessly breaking down all barriers. Opening your arms to meet your loved ones, you thereby open your heart.
