Problems for parents and children are inevitable, but with the right treatment of parents, many conflicts can be avoided.
Instructions
Step 1
In some cases, it is very effective to ignore bad behavior. It happens that parents themselves encourage the child's bad behavior, giving it attention. You should ignore the child's bad behavior if in this way the baby tries to draw attention to himself and when he succeeds, he only gets excited. Try to restrain yourself. When the child realizes that his pranks are not getting your attention, he will stop doing it.
Step 2
When a child begins to behave badly, to be capricious, all this develops into hysteria, you can just go to another room, leave the room. Especially if you are already having a hard time restraining yourself. It is necessary to stay alone with yourself, calm down, come to your senses. At this time, the child will stop being capricious, since the absence of spectators does not suit him. Do not allow yourself to be manipulated, do not shout, do not hit children. Leaving the child alone with his whims and demands is a good psychological pressure that will make him calm down, the child will reflect on his behavior.
Step 3
To avoid aggravating the situation, it is necessary to sharply transfer the child's attention to something else. And this must be done quickly, because if the child is upset and starts to act up, it will be difficult to reach him. In a young child, desires and interests often change, so if something is forbidden to him, offer another interesting activity instead of what you want. The more you are smart and smart, the better.
Step 4
If the child does not do what is needed, do not immediately shout and punish. Show an alternative, let the child start doing things right. It is not enough for young children to say that certain things cannot be done, explain the reason. Often, children are not easy to deliberately sabotage, they explore the world. Therefore, if the baby draws on the wallpaper, give him an album, a drawing board, if the girl takes her mother’s cosmetics, buy a nursery for her, if the child wants to play with a crystal vase, just offer him another toy.
Step 5
Be patient with children. Do not shout at them, do not punish them right away. Often it is enough for a child to explain about the limits of what is permitted. This will help avoid conflicts and quarrels with children.
