There are people who seem to be not so bad, and personally have not done anything to you, but communication with them draws all the vitality out of you. How can you recognize such a person and keep all contacts to a minimum?
Below are four types of people with whom it is better not to have any connections: neither friendly, nor business, not even more loving.
Paranoid
Manic distrustful and looking for a dirty trick in everything in the world. It can explode if someone does not recognize his opinion as the ultimate truth, and often uses not only shouts, but also fists. He is constantly looking for signs of non-existent betrayal, he does not disdain even spying on his partner and "combing" his messages. I am sure that everyone around is only discussing him, and they say only nasty things. When you are around such a character, you will quickly become irritable and restless, or even get a nervous breakdown.
- too distrustful;
- constantly criticizes and teaches everyone and everything;
- often turns an ordinary conversation into a monologue with many accusations against the interlocutor;
- constantly quarrels with the authorities;
- stands his ground to the last, is sure that he is always and in everything he is right, does not recognize other points of view, except his own, even if the opposite is proved;
- pathologically jealous;
- overly touchy;
- considers fools those whose opinions differ from his own;
- has few friends.
Emotionally unstable
Sudden mood swings of this type can put anyone in a stupor. Can laugh at one moment, and at another already curse the whole world. He constantly demands attention to his person, takes offense at what is unknown, accumulates these negative emotions in order to throw everything out later and at once, constantly flirts regardless of the presence of a soul mate. Next to such a person you will be constantly on pins and needles. Anxiety and insecurity will become your constant companions, and sometimes it can come to despair.
- recognizes either all or nothing;
- reacts too emotionally to everything that happens in his life;
- demands all-consuming adoration all the time;
- mood changes dramatically from one extreme to another;
- always strives to leave the last word for himself;
- falls into a stupor in a stressful situation;
- may offend a friend or loved one for no reason;
- unreliable and fickle;
- prefers short and passionate affairs to serious relationships;
- without remorse can ruin the property of a former friend or colleague.
Narcissus
In order to be in the spotlight, I am ready for anything: weave intrigues, play with the feelings of other people, lie, change, substitute. Usually he does not disdain "dirty methods": he sits down on colleagues at work, for example. Next to such a person, you will always feel unhappy and insecure, but the most offensive thing is that he doesn't care.
- asserts itself at the expense of others;
- never to blame;
- terrible egocentric;
- I am sure that the whole world owes him;
- absolutely not empathic;
- pays the greatest attention to his appearance;
- likes to talk about himself, but gets annoyed when he has to talk about others;
- strive to be in the spotlight always and everywhere;
- I am sure that all the best in this world is for him and strives to get it, even if he cannot always afford it.
Predator
The most dangerous type, as it has signs of a clinical psychopath. For him, there are no laws of morality and norms of decency, for him friendly, family and even more so love ties do not matter. He can even break the law without any problems. Skillfully manipulates people, using other people's weaknesses against the people themselves. This type tries not to tell anything about himself, preferring to extract information from the victim. Along with this type, a subconscious feeling of anxiety, anxiety and danger arises. Alas, quite often such acquaintances end very, very badly.
- has been convicted or in trouble with the law;
- cheats with or without reason;
- cold to other people's problems;
- often uses force to achieve intimacy;
- arrogant, stubborn, arrogant;
- deliberately tries to offend friends or family members;
- demonstrates risky behavior (for example, gets behind the wheel drunk and starts racing on the roads);
- manipulates people, using their trust against them;
- on a subconscious level, you feel that something is wrong with him.
How to protect yourself?
If you can't get away from contact, try to be ready to confront such asocial personalities.
… Such people are always rushing things. Don't give in to their pressure.
: where, who, what it looks like, car number and other information. In the event that the case takes a dysfunctional turn, it will be of great help.
… Sometimes friends or family, looking from the outside, can more accurately tell if you or the other person is really not themselves.
… Don't let such people dominate you.
that your new suspicious acquaintance told about himself. Do not be lazy to search the Internet, ask friends and acquaintances, request a recommendation from the last place of work of the slippery guy.
