Are computer games replacing your husband with real communication? Practical advice on how to return a man to a family.
Instructions
Step 1
The best way to establish communication with a person, to show a keen interest in the object of his hobby. Even if you are not interested and sometimes annoying. This is the only sure way to call your spouse for live communication. Ask what is the essence of the game, what successes he has achieved in comparison with other players, rejoice with him.
Step 2
You need to make friends with your spouse and show interest and support in other areas of his life. Ask how things are at work, praise and rejoice with him for his successes, empathize with his failures. Maintain a conversation that interests your spouse. Distract him with pleasant moments, memories of happy experiences, funny situations in your life.
Step 3
Buy board games. A good reason to have a get-together with friends. This will arouse a spouse's fresh interest in communicating with real people, and bet the winner, he will probably want to repeat this experience, instead of immersing an online game.
Step 4
Arrange real competitions at home. Again, you can connect friends of relatives of children. To do this, get out into nature. Arrange sports, or at least a home competition for the best salad. Incorporate games into your real life.
Step 5
A man should feel his indispensability, that you, as a fragile defenseless woman, need him. Do not take all household chores on yourself, ask for help more often, say that without his masculine strength you would never have coped. Let the man feel like your protector hero.
Step 6
More often contact your husband for advice, ask for help in solving certain issues, ask his opinion. A man should be a man, the last word is always with him. Let him decide the most important questions regarding your family, give him this privilege and help him in every possible way.
Step 7
Do not make scandals and quarrels about his hobby. This can only make the man angry and cause a backlash. He will also start to run away from home and hide from his wife's reproaches in Internet clubs and gaming halls.
Step 8
Be patient. Try to fill your husband's free time with other activities, preferably pleasant ones. Don't wait for an invitation to go for a walk or see a movie, be the initiator A man must have a taste of real life that cannot be compared to virtual fantasy.
