Men love with their eyes. This means that, first of all, they are attracted by beautiful representatives of the fair sex. They admire and admire cute ladies. But sometimes a young man hesitates to come up and talk to the beauty. He feels self-doubt and fear of the unknown: whether the girl wants to communicate or not.
The first step towards a goal is to overcome your indecision and approach the desired girl. For starters, you can practice starting conversations with other women. Set yourself a task for the day - meet 10 girls. Go to a crowded place: cafe, library, supermarket. Start a conversation with the first lady who meets. Be at ease.
How to overcome yourself
It is good to arrange a semblance of competition with a friend: who will get to know a large number of girls in a certain time. The loser treats him to a beer. What if I get a rejection? Know that failures are not a cause for disappointment. This is a step towards self-improvement. Analyze the reason and behave differently next time. It has been noticed that outright boors most often receive refusals. The girls are more supportive of the rest, if, of course, the guy is sober and tidy.
After gaining enough experience in dating methods, move on to the object of desire. The anticipated meeting can take place anywhere. Regardless, you need to feel relaxed and at ease. In this case, girls rarely leave the conversation. Breathe slowly and deeply, throw the "bad" thoughts out of your head. Don't get hung up on expecting bad things. But if you are nervous and twitching, few people will want to stay even just by your side.
Acquaintance with the beauty
Before you approach the girl, first observe her from the side. It is very important to understand her mood. Chagrin or anger is not the best dating companion. It is also not advisable to approach if she is surrounded by friends. At a convenient confluence of circumstances, try to draw attention to yourself, catch the eye of a beauty.
Just by her reaction alone, you can judge her interest in you. If she smiled and looked away, and then tried to look secretly again, you can proceed to subsequent actions. If she grimaced and turned away, it is better to leave her alone. Maybe I'll be lucky next time or with another beauty.
Girls love to talk, especially when they are being listened to carefully. Show that you are different from the rest. Try to get her opinion on some issue. It can be gossip about a famous person, a blockbuster released on screens, or the opening of a new establishment. Show interest. And then act according to the circumstances.
Understand that some guys, without overpowering themselves, do not approach beauties. Because of this, the girls think that something is wrong with them, and they complex. Therefore, they go to the more daring and persistent guys. Think about who you want to be: a miserable loser or a winner?
