It often happens that people who have been married for a certain number of years complain that their feelings for each other are not as strong as before, or even have completely died out. Can love be kept in marriage? It is possible, but for this both spouses must try.
Instructions
Step 1
Treat your partner the way you want him to treat you. Understand and take care of each other, show care and attention - this is the main rule of preserving tender and warm feelings for many, many years.
Step 2
Do not accumulate resentment against your loved ones - they have a bad property to destroy even the strongest relationships and alienate two loving people. If you have any complaints about your significant other or you are unhappy with something, talk about it. Explain what specifically does not suit you. Psychologists around the world unanimously argue that those couples who know how to calmly discuss any topic and find a compromise get divorced many times less often than those who constantly keep silent about their grievances.
Step 3
To prevent everyday problems from harming your relationship with your loved one, approach them philosophically. Even if your beloved husband promised to fix the dripping faucet in the bathroom a month ago, but still has not fixed it, this is not a reason to make him a scandal. Better to politely remind him of the problem and, most likely, he will rush to get down to business. Didn't your wife cook dinner? Is this a tragedy? Invite her to your favorite Italian restaurant or order pizza at home.
Step 4
Remember how you looked when you first met. Just because you've been a husband and wife for 10 years and have lived together doesn't mean you can flaunt each other around the house in faded robes. Keep track of your appearance, try to look attractive at home: light makeup, a pretty dress and a fresh manicure have not been canceled yet.
Step 5
Arrange surprises for each other in the form of romantic evenings, going to the cinema, traveling for two, and just pleasant gifts. Send your half a written declaration of love. Do not forget to tell your dear person how much he means to you and how much you love him.
