Long years of marriage, long-term residence in the same territory, everyday life and material difficulties over time, unfortunately, lead to a chill between the spouses. Having gotten a soul mate, partners no longer want to work on relationships, they stop surprising, giving small gifts, courting, etc. This is quite common.
In order for the family to survive and the relationship to acquire novelty, you need to adhere to several basic rules.
Rate your appearance. Marriage is not a reason to throw beautiful underwear and fashionable things into your wardrobe, stop following your figure and hairdo, visit a manicurist, etc. A daily fashion show in a dressing gown and curlers will quickly cool the ardor of the chosen one.
Surprise your loved one. There is no need to wait for a suitable excuse, you can arrange a romantic dinner in the middle of the week, postpone everything and watch a movie together, buy a small gift, just like that, for no reason. And the scale of the surprise is not at all important, the main thing is to surround with attention and make you feel that a loved one is still dear and loved.
Have a heart-to-heart talk. Having felt the cooling on the part of the second half, you should not immediately think about divorce. A heart-to-heart conversation, without shouts and accusations, may clear up the situation.
Find a common hobby. Nothing brings spouses closer together than common interests. It is enough to choose an activity that will appeal to both: it can be anything: a joint visit to the stadium (when the husband's favorite team is playing), picking up stamps or magnets, etc. By nature, women are considered more flexible, so it is easier for them to become addicted to their spouse's hobbies.
Diversify your intimate life. When people have been married for a long time, they cease to be shy in bed, to have complexes about the imperfection of the figure or behavior during intimacy, and this is great. But over time, the joy from the usual intimacy can subside, and then role-playing games, sexy lingerie, striptease performance, etc. are used. Do not hesitate to express yourself, flirt and flirt - this will give the spouse an opportunity to feel young and fall in love with his spouse again …
