If after the first meeting you would like to continue acquaintance, and your chosen one does not show interest, perhaps he simply did not see you. You can take matters into your own hands, but try to avoid some common mistakes.
Instructions
Step 1
Generally accepted norms of behavior make different demands on a man and a woman. If you are a representative of the stronger sex, then the lady will wait for the initiative from you. Usually a woman will be able to make it clear that she is not against the continuation of the acquaintance. However, the restraint of your interlocutor may be due to her modesty and shyness, and not because you do not like you. If you are hesitant to ask a lady out just on a date, look for a plausible excuse to meet. Perhaps she mentioned some domestic difficulties - offer her your help. You can, on the contrary, pretend that you need the help of a girl - for example, a consultation on the treatment of your beloved cat, which has become somehow sad.
Step 2
If you discussed an interesting topic, ask her for contact information - phone number or ICQ, Skype nickname to clarify some data. If you made a good impression on the girl, she will not refuse this request. After communicating remotely, it will be easier to make an appointment.
Step 3
The girl has to be resourceful in order to continue acquaintance with the chosen one, if he does not show initiative. If you have mutual acquaintances, ask them to help arrange a chance meeting. In personal communication, make it clear how important the opinion of such a competent person is to you on a variety of issues.
Step 4
A justified request for help will provide an excuse for a new meeting. If you have a car, try to "break" it near your job or the house of your chosen one, and then call him and ask for urgent help, be sure to apologize for the trouble. As a token of gratitude for your help, you can invite him to a cafe.
Step 5
Men have different attitudes towards initiative women: some are flattered by increased attention, while others are losing interest in easy prey. Therefore, observe the measure, do not try to force events too much. Internet communication will help you continue your acquaintance without becoming too intrusive.
