Building a loving relationship is challenging but challenging. The main place is given to numerous conversations, thanks to which both the guy and the girl recognize each other. Some topics can be discussed over and over again, but it is better for a young man not to know about some points.
Freedom of Speech: Honestly and Frankly
At first, some lovers prefer to go without words. Others, on the contrary, thoroughly recognize a new person, asking many questions and being interested in seemingly real little things. If a guy constantly asks something or you yourself want to open up as much as possible, feel free to talk about the following facts of your biography.
For example, openly and honestly tell us where you studied, where you work, how interested you are in your field of activity. Such information will demonstrate in you your business qualities, the desire for independence, the desire to be useful. Fascinated by her chosen profession, the girl looks like a successful and contented life. And this is very attractive for young people.
Also, a guy in love will be interested to know about the girl's hobbies. Tell us about your favorite and currently reading books, recently watched films, or visited exhibitions. If your area of interest includes sports, animals, travel, etc. - discuss them as well. Be sure to ask the answer questions to keep up with the guy's interests.
If your date isn't your first, you can tell your boyfriend about your plans for the future. This must be done in order to understand how much he shares your aspirations. There should be a person nearby in whom you will find support and support in any situation.
Don't forget to talk about your relatives as well. Just be vigilant and don't spread too personal information. Remember that someday your boyfriend will get to know the person under discussion (mom, father, sister, etc.) and may accidentally indicate knowledge of details he does not need. This situation will be uncomfortable for both you and your relative.
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With a loved one I want to talk about everything. This desire is realizable on one condition: if you know how to filter the presented information. This quality will save your relationship from unnecessary arguments, thoughts and disagreements.
The most slippery topic in a new relationship is a girl's ex-boyfriends. At some point, your young man will become interested in knowing their number, characteristics, reasons for parting and other facts that he does not need. Dodging discussion will lead to bad assumptions, honesty can lead to subsequent jealousy.
In this aspect, you can safely tell the guy, for example, about the first kiss. This memory looks romantic and somewhat naive. But it is not worth going into the details of the first and subsequent sexual contacts or the characteristics of the ex, even if the guy is actively asking. In the future, this information may be used against you.
You should also not discuss your bad habits. Modern young people for long-term relationships are increasingly choosing girls who do not like nightclubs, rarely attend parties and do not drink alcohol. This behavior is due to nature: they intuitively seek a healthy mother for their children. If you like to sit in a smoky cafe or drink wine in good company, start from afar. Ask the guy about his attitude to such a pastime and decide what should be changed: a way of rest or a young man.
When talking with a guy, do not forget about his person. Ask questions, be interested in hobbies, work, study, attitude towards family and friends. The main thing when communicating: keep a positive, good mood and try to be frank.
