Making the decision to have sex isn't all that difficult if you think well to get started. And, of course, it is not the process itself that plays a huge role here, but the chosen partner. There are some tips to help you make the right decision.
Instructions
Step 1
The girl needs to think it over well. And, above all, decide whether she really needs it. It is possible that the age is not yet quite suitable for this. Regardless of all the conversations of girlfriends, you should think with your own head. If a young man insists on sex, and the girl is not yet mentally ready for such a step, then it is better to refuse it. Firstly, you can only decide to have sex when you really want it yourself. Secondly, the first time is always remembered. And it depends only on the girl how pleasant these memories will be. It is not difficult to decide on sex, it is difficult to make a really correct choice, not to be mistaken.
Step 2
It is much easier for a young man to decide on sex. First of all, guys don't give that much importance to the first time. Secondly, the memories of the first sex, although they are stored in the memory for a long time, are still lost and fade with each new experience. If doubts are worried, you can read special literature in order to prepare yourself mentally.
Step 3
Deciding on sex is especially difficult if the previous experience was not successful. Here it is worth paying attention to conversations with loved ones, which will help you realize how enjoyable it is in the end. It is very important to find a good partner who will think not only about himself and about the process itself, but also about you. Only in this case, sex will bring pleasure, and it will be much easier to decide on it.
Step 4
Reading special literature will help to properly prepare your body and mind for the process. There is nothing wrong with sex if you know all the features of this case. Remember that erotic stories and romance novels are bad counselors. First, things are different in life. Secondly, this kind of literature does not prepare you for sex. Although it helps to get aroused. And that's half the battle.
Step 5
Under the influence of alcohol, deciding to have sex is a bad decision. Firstly, this decision is not yours, but the alcohol you have drunk. Secondly, in the morning you will not only have a hangover, but also the realization that your decision was hasty and even erroneous. If you have been drinking too much, the best solution is to go to your bed in splendid isolation.
Step 6
Before you decide to have sex, scroll through the further events in your head several times. Think about what this experience will bring you at this stage of your development and becoming as a person. Weigh all the positive and negative aspects of your decision. If there are no obstacles, then feel free to start practicing.
