Most children's fairy tales end with the spouses living happily ever after, and died on the same day. Hearing such tales from childhood, many of us would like to transfer this ideal scenario to our real life.
Necessary
Understanding, patience, optimism, calmness, humor
Instructions
Step 1
Mutual understanding is the key to the success of a long-term relationship. You should always remember that your soul mate has the right to their own opinions, hobbies, thoughts and feelings. Trying to understand a person and accept him as he is is very important. Do not remake a loved one for yourself, be able to critically look at yourself and your shortcomings, if possible, correct something in yourself.
Step 2
Criticism is only constructive. And smaller. And kindly. In no case should you put pressure on a person or criticize him unreasonably. You can't build a long-term relationship like that. Who enjoys constantly listening to reproaches?
Step 3
Common interests and hobbies. Try to find as many points of contact with your spouse as possible. This does not mean that you need to give up your own hobbies, but the interests of the second half cannot be ignored. It is better to separate them or at least support your spouse in his hobby.
Step 4
Try to keep warm and love. Do not think that in 20-30 years your loved one will need kind, affectionate words and kisses less. Perhaps, on the contrary, he will need them much more than in his younger years. Therefore, you need to always show your feelings, at any convenient moment, try to show how you love your spouse.
