Probably, every person in childhood and not only thinks about where he wants to live. Of course, this place should be comfortable, cozy and beautiful. However, for me personally, it is more important not where to live, but with whom.
Acquisition of material
Earlier, as a student and living in a big city, she dreamed of staying there forever. After all, she herself was from a small town, a regional center, where there are two schools, a clinic and a cinema. Then it seemed that a big city is the place where you can find yourself, your vocation, a place in life, happiness. I thought that this is exactly the place where you want to live your whole life.
Five student years passed quickly. The defense of the diploma was left behind, a good job appeared and even managed to get my own corner. It seemed that dreams began to come true. Perseverance, patience, hard work helped her to become successful enough for 25 years. There was little to do - the last on the list was happiness. But it didn’t come. Money, an apartment, the purchase of the desired car no longer brought true pleasure. Yes, all this made life easier. But I wanted to live happily, not just comfortably.
For the soul to be winged
Once, at a pedestrian crossing, she almost hit a man, or rather a guy. The fear cannot be expressed in words, because it was her first mistake on the road. It turned out that nothing threatened his life and health, they began to communicate, because Pavel (that was the name of the victim of inattention on the road) turned out to be an intelligent, interesting and generally pleasant person to talk to.
An affair began. For a moment she thought: "Wait!" My heart leapt from my chest, fluttered at the sound of his voice. The coveted offer had already been made, when suddenly one "BUT" appeared. For health reasons, Pavel could not stay in the city for a long time, because he was suffocating in the feces of factories and machines. He lived in a small village in his own house, worked as a teacher in a rural school, and in his spare time was engaged in breeding livestock. There was no question of his moving to the city, as he immediately categorically refused.
Work, friends, entertainment, a more or less arranged life - she had to leave everything and move to live in the village. Frankly, such a prospect was terrifying, it was a pity to lose the acquired benefits. She hesitated. However, the desire for spiritual harmony and the desire to start a family eventually won.
Now she also works as a teacher in high school. She has two children and a caring husband. After 10 years, it became clear that this is the very place where she dreamed of living her whole life. After all, it does not depend on the geographical position on the map, the main thing is that there is a home and family, where they are always waiting.