In marriage, family relationships are often in crisis. In this situation, it is necessary to decide whether it is worth going further with the person through life or it is better to divorce, remaining in a friendly relationship.
Instructions
Step 1
Family life is not heaven; it often involves quarrels and conflicts between spouses. The question is how negative situations are resolved, what conclusions are drawn. If the husband and wife realized that at one time they rushed with the seal in their passport, that apart from falling in love and passion for each other, nothing connected them, then the best solution for both would be a divorce. Since falling in love tends to fade over the years. If she is not fueled by respect for each other, mutual understanding and care, then the marriage is doomed to disintegration. And building relationships on the sand is pointless.
Step 2
If the spouses are connected by something more than falling in love, for example, like-mindedness or support for each other, the crisis moments of family life should be overcome. First you need to figure out why you and your husband began to conflict. What is the real reason for quarrels and resentments. Talk to your spouse heart to heart, find out calmly and without emotion who is right about what. If the conversation at home did not work out, then you can contact a family psychologist who will listen to you, advise and give recommendations.
Step 3
If it is difficult to get along in one apartment, then you should part ways for a while and think about the whole situation separately. Just do not need to discuss with household members a temporary break with a spouse, analyze and draw conclusions on the current situation better by ourselves, without anyone's help.
Step 4
When you rest from each other, you should meet and discuss your future life together. Who made what conclusions, who sees how family life. Then you can arrange a second honeymoon, go to those places where you were happy and where you experienced positive emotions. Go to the movies for your favorite movie; sit in a restaurant where they first met and kissed. It is necessary to surround yourself with an atmosphere of positive and romantic, remember how happy you were with each other, how you promised to love each other, no matter what.
