Often after a divorce, a woman says that she was a good wife, that she tried to do everything to make her husband happy. And he still went to another, and even to one that is no better than herself, or even worse. Perhaps the woman made mistakes that angered her husband, but he did not say it out loud?
Surely it is worth paying attention to things that women often consider common and familiar, but they infuriate men. And if these actions are repeated often, the man will begin to look to the side.
Here are some examples of the behavior of women who can anger a man or even turn him away from themselves:
Lies and pretenses
Psychologists say that men have a "feel like animals." They instantly recognize a lie, but they don't always say it out loud. No need to play a part and pretend - it will not lead to good.
It is best to be yourself - men value integrity and sincerity very much. Perhaps for a while they will allow themselves to be deceived for some reason. But when they get bored, the storm is inevitable.
Tantrums and scenes of jealousy
We all want to be trusted. That is, they respected us. And if they do not trust, then they are considered weak, dishonest, mean, and so on. How can a man live with a woman who endows him with such qualities?
Respect is important for a person, and especially respect for loved ones. And if he does not find him, he will go to look for him somewhere else.
And one more thing: jealousy is a sign that a woman does not respect herself, since she believes that she can be cheated on. So, first of all, you need to take care of yourself.
Sex blackmail
It's like tying a piece of meat to a string and teasing a dog with it. This is also an expression of disrespect for a man, because intimate life is of great importance for him both physically and psychologically.
Therefore, sex should be by mutual consent and attraction and should not turn into an instrument of manipulation.
Public criticism
Men generally do not tolerate criticism in their address, and if they criticize him in the presence of friends or relatives, he can be very upset or angry.
But if the wife says only good things about him, he will do his best to correspond to what they say about him.
However, a woman will also not like it if she speaks negatively about her in the presence of others.
Gossip and condemnation
Men are often irritated by female chatter, by endless "chirping". It has no meaning for them, although for women it is a whole ritual filled with all sorts of meanings and hints, it is a kind of play and escape from stress.
You just need to take into account that such conversations, when two girlfriends wash the bones of the third, simply "pissed off" the man, because he does not understand how you can be friends and condemn at the same time.
It also annoys men if the wife talks to her friend on the phone for hours. He begins to think that her friend is more important to her than he is - after all, she does not chat with him for hours. Therefore, such conversations are best done in his absence.
