Promising acquaintances do not happen as often as we would like. Therefore, you need to take every chance to find your love. You can arouse and keep a guy's interest by showing your best qualities and sincere attention. All the chances for success are also those girls who know how to maintain a relaxed and exciting conversation.
Instructions
Step 1
Show originality. Everyday problems always cause boredom, so you need to find a topic that will interest your interlocutor. Nothing will surprise a guy more than a girl's passion for non-female sports: snowboarding, football, hockey, etc.
Step 2
Talk to a guy on the same "wavelength". Emotions and feelings are important for girls - leave them for communication with friends. Guys are more used to relying on facts. Tell him what is interesting for him - where you have been, what you saw, what you learned, read or watched.
Step 3
Be natural and relaxed. Do you think that you will be more interested in the guy, pretending to be a fatal queen or a charming coquette? But this is not the case. Wearing a mask will prevent you from demonstrating your true dignity, you will behave unnatural and caricatured.
Step 4
Find out the interests of the interlocutor. Listen carefully to his reports on work or last fishing, ask for details. If the guy is very well versed in any area - ask his advice, help. Make him feel that you respect his authority.
Step 5
Show a genuine interest in the guy's business. Representatives of the strong half of humanity most of all like to talk about their achievements and successes, ideas and aspirations. They need to be appreciated, thanked, praised and understood.
Step 6
Avoid intrusiveness and excessive curiosity. If the guy leaves the answer, don't insist and change the subject. Don't try to control him - this has nothing to do with wanting to get to know the guy better and will push him away.
Step 7
The guy will see you as an interesting person if he knows about your achievements, victories and finds. Show him what you are a professional at. But by being friendly and open, you need to be able to maintain mystery in order to be successful. Always just open the veil over a part of your life, letting him figure out the rest.
Step 8
Remember to show your sense of humor. Jokes, humor, interesting and casual stories will help you defuse the atmosphere and stir up a fading interest in communication.
Step 9
When telling something, try to feel the interlocutor. When a guy is bored, you can tell by the distracted look, vague or monotonous answers. If you want to stay interesting, change the subject and don't load it anymore. In addition to tedious topics, complaints should also be avoided.
