Our century calls on girls to be more decisive. Men, in turn, still prefer to take the first step on their own. Therefore, wise young ladies show their interest in the object carefully and unobtrusively.
Instructions
Step 1
With a stranger If you like a stranger in a public place (coffee shop, student library, on the street, or on public transport), try to make eye contact. Use the traditional formula “to the corner, to the nose, to the object”: look at the man, and when he senses your gaze, look away. Adopt flirtatious gestures: straighten your hair, stroke your wrist, twirl the stem of the glass with your fingers or a cup in your hands, bite your lip or lightly run your tongue over it (just a little, do not be like an actress from a frank movie). Give the man the right to take the first step, preparing the ground for this in the form of unobtrusive signs of attention. In a situation where there is a risk of losing sight of and never again meeting the person you like (in case of an accidental meeting on the street, in a traffic jam), you can play for broke and propose acquaintance yourself. If you are embarrassed to start a conversation, put a business card in his hand or throw it into the open window - certainly with a smile, albeit tinged with embarrassment - you risk nothing, he himself will decide whether to call you or not.
Step 2
With an indirectly familiar person Once in a friendly company with the object of your interest, ask a mutual friend to introduce you to each other. At an event or party, you yourself can strike up a conversation by asking for help, asking something, or expressing your opinion about what is happening. If a man keeps up the conversation, then he is at least sociable and polite. Accompany your words with light flirting gestures (touch your hair, your face, smile openly, throw your head back and bare your neck while laughing) in order to signal that the interlocutor is interesting to you as a representative of the opposite sex.
Step 3
With a person you know If your object of interest is a colleague, classmate, or friend, and you would like to take the relationship into a new plane, be feminine. Do not behave like "your boyfriend", exclude strong words from speech, try to speak softly, sympathetically, not forgetting about humor and a smile. Try flirting techniques, but casually. For example, by accidentally touching your hands, instead of the usual “sorry,” show embarrassment by pause. Most likely, the guy will understand that your feelings for him have become not only friendly.
