Time cannot be reversed. No matter how much a woman would like to forever preserve girlish harmony, beauty, elasticity of the skin, this, alas, is from the category of dreams. On the other hand, a woman, regardless of age, dreams of attracting the attention of a man, to love and be loved.
Instructions
Step 1
Suggest to yourself: it is pointless to grumble for a while, to mourn the departed youth. Yes, you are no longer as slim, charming as you used to be. But on the other hand, you have become much more experienced, wiser.
Step 2
Of course, you need to pay great attention to your appearance. Remember: any self-respecting woman, regardless of age and material wealth, should look attractive. It is quite possible if you take care of yourself. Do not make the very common, alas, mistake of many married women who decide that a stamp in their passport allows them to relax, walk around the house in a faded dressing gown, forget about makeup, and do not pay due attention to their husband. And then they are genuinely indignant when they discover that the husband has begun to seek solace on the side.
Step 3
Do your best to become irreplaceable for your loved one. He must know for sure: you will always listen patiently to him, try to encourage, help, give useful advice. This does not mean, of course, that it is necessary to indulge weakly and resignedly to any male desires, whims. But to become a wise counselor, to create a warm, cozy atmosphere in the house is the direct duty of a loving and caring woman. A husband should see in her not only a wife, but a devoted, sincere friend, whom you can always trust in everything, who will not let you down.
Step 4
A very important point: learn to understand a man. Oddly enough, some women, even those who have been married for a long time, do not understand the logic of male actions at all. They try to consider and evaluate his behavior from their feminine position, and as a result - misunderstandings, quarrels, conflicts. After all, a man has a completely different psychology, so he looks at many things and reacts differently. If you understand and remember this, you will save yourself from many unpleasant moments and problems. And the husband will be simply delighted: what a smart, understanding wife he has.
Step 5
Learn to achieve your goal delicately, with feminine wisdom and cunning. In no case do not use such weapons as reproaches, tears, scandals. Do not hide behind your weakness: oh, really a strong man cannot show generosity, give in to a woman. Even if your husband gives in to you, he will be very annoyed at heart. If you want to get something out of him, make him think that he wants it himself. How to do this - any woman decides in her own way, depending on the circumstances.
