It is always difficult for men to understand women, but women also often do not understand why their men do this or that. It is not at all strange that the romantic relationship between the two sexes is often too confusing. Many men leave their beloved, and then for some reason come back.
Why do men leave
People fall in love and have a serious relationship. As a rule, everything starts out great: flowers, candy, kisses, going to restaurants. A couple cannot imagine existence without each other. But there comes a turning point, and everything ends. Lovers lose the thread that tied them, and cease to understand whether they need this relationship.
Often a man becomes the initiator of a break. There can be many reasons for parting. For example, a woman does not suit him in bed, she does not cook well or is too intrusive, stops taking care of herself or taking care of her faithful. Some representatives of the stronger sex leave simply because they are tired of being with the same darling, it seems to them that they will find something better on the side. And some go straight to other women.
Why do men come back
After the departure of their beloved, women try to forget about them and start a new life. They meet new men and forge new relationships. And everything would be fine, but often the former suddenly burst into their lives and turn everything upside down.
Why do men do this? The reasons can be completely different:
The man realized his mistake. If the reasons for leaving the beloved were not so specific, a representative of the stronger sex can quickly realize that he has messed up. Perhaps he entered into a relationship with another lady and compared her to his ex, who won in all respects.
The man felt lonely. Perhaps he dreamed of remaining a bachelor, but the cherished freedom did not bring him anything good, except for complete loneliness. Where should the man go if not to the abandoned bride?
The man could not forget his beloved. After parting for any reason, many people realize that they have lost true love.
The man wants revenge. If a couple broke up, to put it mildly, not friends, the ex can return only to ruin the life of their abuser. Perhaps he saw that his woman was happy without him, and was trying to mend a relationship with her in order to then hurt her again. Unfortunately, there are also such "cadres".
Is it worth going back to the ex
It is not so important why the man decided to return, the main thing is to understand whether it is worth allowing him to do it. People say that a broken cup cannot be glued. More often than not, these words turn out to be true. Moreover, women who have already found a new soul mate need to think about this.
