Even if a woman does not admit this to herself, on a subconscious level she always wants to please men. Sometimes in women's collectives they vigorously discuss why a seemingly nondescript colleague enjoys the attention of the opposite sex, and men prefer to keep their distance from the "painted beauty". And really, why? What do psychologists, sociologists say about this, and what conclusions can you make yourself, analyzing the experience of others?
The science of winning?
"The less we love a woman, the easier it is for her to like us." Pushkin's well-known male "rule of the conqueror" works for the fair sex. When a girl, and even more so, a mature lady too clearly shows signs of attention, the object of her claims is most often alarmed and “goes on the defensive”.
But the behavior of the "prize woman" as a rule awakens the hunting instincts. That is, you need to know your own worth. And then they will appreciate you. Although the boundaries of inaccessibility should not be too sharp. Yes, many "macho" are flattered by the reputation of the conqueror of recalcitrant obstinate women. But many modern men are quite childish, and if you have to exert too much effort, they will most likely leave the "top" shine alone.
Learn to listen
The mom-wife is the ideal of many modern office workers. Caring, attentive, of course, able to cook well. The latter circumstance is often underestimated by young ladies, but in vain: the way to a man's heart still lies, if not directly through the stomach, then somewhere nearby.
Culinary skills, if desired, are easy to acquire. It is much more difficult to learn to listen. This rare skill is appreciated by everyone, and in order to win first the trust, and then the sympathy of the desired object, it is priceless.
When it comes to conversations, there is a lot to learn. What do men like to talk about? About football, cars, political events. So be yourself in the subject. Let's say there is a highly intellectual discussion about Lionel Messi's merits and failures during a coffee break. And then an inconspicuous employee casually notes that she personally likes Cristiano Ronaldo more and resembles a couple of episodes of his triumphs. And she herself becomes the triumphant of the day, this is at least.
Small and big tricks
Polls, which are carried out from time to time by statistical agencies, note that men who themselves sin by negligence in their clothes, shoes, hairstyles, demand much more grooming from their (and others!) Halves. Taking care of yourself, having time to look after the children, to go about the house is a minimum program that allows you not to fall in the eyes of your chosen one. And if it still needs to be found, conquered, then the minimum is clearly not enough.
Appearance, of course, is important, but there are no absolute rules here either: you like different face types, hair color, complexion. It is far from always that only model forms attract the eyes, often in honor of more appetizing roundness. But not flabby, saggy bodies!
What always repels everyone is rudeness, arrogance, superficiality, "yakanie", excessive assertiveness in relationships. If a woman is categorical in her judgments, condemns everyone and everything, this will certainly alert the potential partner: he will fear that he himself will become a constant object of criticism. Unions, where women constantly "saw" their halves, are never happy. Be she a beauty queen, but her reflection in the eyes of the "educated" will fade very quickly.
The main thing: you must be sure to sincerely appreciate the person you want to like.
