Relationships throughout family life can change. This can happen because you cannot accept your loved one as he is, but you want to remake him for yourself. This problem has rather deep roots, which lie in the fact that each of the parties, long before meeting their chosen one, already has a certain opinion about what he should be. At the same time, having lived with your beloved for several years, it is very unpleasant to realize that you are no longer interesting to him.
Instructions
Step 1
Whatever you do to get your husband's attention, do it for yourself first of all.
Step 2
A man should not know that you are fighting for him. Let him think whatever he wants about your actions.
Step 3
Men tend to want to be hunters. Your husband should feel as if the "prey", which would seem to have already been caught forever, unexpectedly flees right out from under his nose. But don't overdo it. You need to keep a certain golden mean - yes, dear, I'm certainly interested in you, but I also have other important interests.
Step 4
Take care of your looks and clothes. Indeed, often, in a fit of feelings, women are ready to open up to their husband all of themselves without a trace. Therefore, a man begins to think that he already knows his wife as "flaky". And since he knows everything, then nothing new is expected. What kind of passions can be in this case …
Step 5
Therefore, periodically carry out small revolutions in appearance. Buy what you previously thought was simply inappropriate. For example, jeans with a full butt beaded bow tie or a purse with a playboy logo. Get the most out of it.
Step 6
Develop your intelligence and stand up for independence. Surely there is some topic or subject that interests you, but for which you did not have enough time. Deal with it immediately. Maybe there are unread books or unseen movies. Read, see, absorb new experiences. And discuss emotions not with your husband, but with your girlfriends. A man will only need one statement-statement about your inner growth, about satisfying your curiosity and interest.
Step 7
Break out of the house. Visit some classes once a week, purchase a subscription to fitness, swimming pool. At the same time, your husband should know that this is an inviolable time for himself. Whether there is an earthquake or a flood, you will still go to sing or dance. And such a place should be closed from your husband. He may know where it is, but nothing more.
Step 8
Cultivate your healthy sexuality. Create a new habit of indulging in your own fantasies sometimes.
