A very common life situation when a beautiful butterfly, having married, turns either into a caterpillar or into a cocoon. This can be avoided and remain interesting to the husband.
Instructions
Step 1
If you just got married, then you should read this for the future.
At the first stage, arm yourself with a pen and paper and clearly set yourself tasks:
1.improve or change your appearance
2. to improve and develop your inner world
3. change and improve communication with your husband.
Step 2
Men love with their eyes, and therefore become pleasing to his eyes again. Discard shabby home clothes. Buy yourself a new set (or better, two at once).
Step 3
Buy a gym membership. Even if it seems to you that you do not have time for this at all, this is only an illusion. Discard your favorite TV show or get up one hour earlier. Reduce the time you spend on cooking (cook food for 3 days at once - soup and a couple of main courses, and side dishes cook quickly). Do not be afraid that your spouse will not like it, the habit is a matter of time. You just need to explain to him that you want to stay young and healthy, and for this you need exercise. Hand over some household chores to your husband. Let him take or pick up the child from school or from the section at least once a week. And even if the child gets upset out of habit or the spouse forgets something from the list of things to do in the circle, it's okay. Over time, both the father and your baby will get used to the new daily routine, and you can buy everything you need for practice in advance and put it in your backpack.
Arriving at the fitness center, do not expect lightning-fast results. Just put in your head that this is now an integral part of your life, which will give you not only beauty, but also good health and joy. When in a couple of weeks you feel a surge of energy, and in a couple of months your clothes start to dangle on you, you will smile at your reflection in the mirror, and the world will seem much brighter and more welcoming to you. But don't forget about proper nutrition.
Step 4
Change your look. Try a different hairstyle. Let him now have "another woman" in front of him - not the one to whom he was accustomed. And he will take a fresh look at you. Visit a beautician, solarium.
Step 5
One can talk a lot and for a long time on the topic of improving the inner world, but the main idea is simple. Think of the hours spent watching TV, which waste your time and "melt" your brain, not as pleasant relaxation, but as hours and days that you threw in the trash or as a bad habit. If you can't quit right away, replace one episode with reading a book. Let it be light at first. The main thing is to train yourself to read. Then you will have something to talk about with your man. Go online, find out what new films have come out and how people respond about them. Download, buy and watch one. Read reviews about him, criticism. And then invite your husband to watch together. And talk to your husband, discuss, show him you are a thinking creature. You will like it, you will be addicted, because our brain loves everything new and trains just like muscles.
Step 6
And the last thing on our list is improving the quality of your communication with your husband. All methods are good here. This is sex, and joint forays into nature or to the cinema, and romantic evenings by candlelight with his favorite dishes and your evening dress. The main thing is not to overdo it. Don't try to do everything at once. And then take offense that my husband did not understand. Gradually accustom him to silk sheets, to starched napkins and candles once a week, to tickets bought for a concert (or to football, why not?), To offers to go to the ice rink or ski to the forest with the whole family. They say it takes forty days to develop a habit. It's not long. The main thing is not to back down or give up.
